allendalepharm Chapter 282
Chapter 282
Wu Qiujin simply stopped dragging her feet and spoke directly:
"Brother-in-law, regarding Mengmeng's problem, we should first clarify the starting point, that is, we should be good to Mengmeng and conducive to Mengmeng's healthy growth and learning, rather than the two of us fighting over who Mengmeng should be with..."
She intended to persuade Shen Fei from the perspective of Mengmeng's good by appealing to his emotions and reasoning.
Hearing this, Shen Fei nodded and said, "That's what I mean, everything is based on the premise of the child's good."
He agreed with this point, and he thought that it would be better for Mengmeng to follow him than to follow Wu Qiujin.
Hearing Shen Fei say that "for the good of the child" is the premise, Wu Qiujin was delighted, smiled and said:
"Hearing you say that, I believe you are a good father. Then things are very simple. Mengmeng will go to the provincial capital with me to live and study in the future. During holidays, as long as she wants to come back, I will not stop her. What do you think?"
In her opinion, although Shen Fei's family eats well, the environment in which she grows up, the educational resources, and medical resources are definitely not as good as those in the provincial capital. For Mengmeng's good, she should let her go to the provincial capital!
Shen Fei shook his head and said:
"I don't think it will be better for Mengmeng to go to the provincial capital with you than to stay in the village."
"Ah? Isn't this obvious? Is the education in the provincial capital better than in the village? Is the medical care in the provincial capital better than in the village? Is the vision of the provincial capital broader than that of the village? These are all things that are crucial to the growth of children. How can they not be as good as those in the village?!"
Wu Qiujin asked several questions in a row, and these questions were the reasons why she felt that the provincial capital was better.
Shen Fei said calmly:
"Education, medical care and expanding horizons are not a problem. I will solve them."
"Mengmeng is still young at this stage, only 5 years old. I feel that we should focus on her physical and mental health first, make sure she grows up happily and healthily, and then talk about learning and expanding horizons."
Hearing this, Wu Qiujin thought about it and nodded.
She still agreed with this. Mengmeng is not yet old enough to go to elementary school, so we should really focus on the issue of physical and mental health first.
She said: "Mengmeng is with me, she is cheerful and happy every day, and there is no need to worry about her health. I am a medical student, and I pay attention to her health."
"I'm talking about physical and mental health."
Shen Fei emphasized it and then said,
"Since we are talking about this issue, I will ask you bluntly, do you have a problem with your sexual orientation and like women?"
"......"
Shen Fei's question directly silenced Wu Qiujin.
After about a minute, she said seriously:
"My marriage has problems, but I am a normal person. My sexual orientation is fine, and I will not lead Mengmeng astray."
Seeing her serious look, Shen Fei did not refute, but continued:
"You have no problem, then Qiu Wenbin has no problem? Is your girlfriend Feng Shengnan fine? Moreover, you are so busy with work now, and Mengmeng is only 5 years old. How can you take care of Mengmeng?"
As soon as these questions came out, Wu Qiujin was silent again.
Qiu Wenbin not only has problems, but also has big problems. Her female friend Feng Shengnan is also a problem patient...
This time Wu Qiujin was silent for a full five minutes before she slowly spoke:
"I came here to prepare for a divorce from Qiu Wenbin. Mengmeng was also taken care of by me before, so it doesn't matter whether we divorce or not.
In addition, I have turned down my job as head nurse. I am just an ordinary nurse now. I can still take care of Mengmeng as before. I have time."
"You nurses need to work the night shift, right? After your divorce, when you work the night shift, do you let Mengmeng stay at home by herself? Or go to the hospital with you? Or go to your girlfriend's house?"
Shen Fei once again asked a soul-searching question.
In his opinion, there are too many problems with letting Mengmeng stay with Wu Qiujin. If you mention a few of them, Wu Qiujin will be speechless. What else is there to argue about?
"Shengnan is not my girlfriend. I have a normal sexual orientation.
I will solve all the problems you mentioned. For Mengmeng, I can change to a job that does not require night shifts.
Can you please stop competing with me for Mengmeng? She is all I have left.
I have been taking care of her every day since she was still in her cradle. For more than five years, I have become accustomed to having a daughter to accompany me and chatter in my ears. I cannot be separated from her..."
Wu Qiujin used a pleading tone, looking pitiful, hoping that Shen Fei would not compete with her for his daughter.
If it were something else, Shen Fei would have agreed just because she had raised Mengmeng for more than five years.
But on the issue of Mengmeng, Shen Fei really could not give in.He stood up, cleared the dishes, and walked to the kitchen, saying as he walked:
"You asked for half a month off, think about it again. Think about what kind of lifestyle is better for you and Mengmeng."
"The hot water is ready, go take a shower first, have a good sleep, don't think too much, and call me if you need any help recently."
After chatting with Wu Qiujin for a while, Shen Fei found that her nerves were actually quite tense, and she even had signs of emotional breakdown.
It should be the problems of marriage, work and Mengmeng that made her nervous, so let her rest first.
There is half a month, no rush.
In Wu Qiujin's current situation, it is really not suitable to live with Mengmeng, which is not very good for Mengmeng.
"..."
Hearing Shen Fei say that there is still half a month, Wu Qiujin's already tense nerves did relax a little.
After thinking for a while, she stood up and walked to the kitchen, saying to Shen Fei:
"Thank you for the midnight snack, I'll wash the dishes."
"Let's talk about who Meng Meng is with after I get my divorce."
She rolled up her sleeves, walked forward, and took the initiative to wash the dishes.
Seeing this, Shen Fei didn't fight with her, and asked curiously:
"You and Qiu Wenbin are not in a serious marriage, right? I heard him say that you seem to have been separated all the time?"
Talking about this issue, Wu Qiujin didn't react much.
She nodded and said casually:
"At that time, I had just been in the hospital for more than a year. I had to get married to get a big house. Through an introduction, I met Qiu Wenbin from the same county. After meeting him for a few times, I felt that he was a good person, so I decided to get married."
"This marriage was a bit sloppy. I didn't know him well. The day before the wedding, I bought a new suit and sent it to his place to try it on him.
As a result, the first time I used the key he gave me, I opened the door of his dormitory, walked in, heard a strange noise, and then saw him and another A man, two people without clothes, in the kitchen, intimate contact, that scene made me, as a nurse, feel sick for a long time..."
"It was a critical period for the company to distribute housing, and I was greedy to get a house. Before getting married, I had already obtained a marriage certificate with him and submitted it to the company.
If I broke up with him on the spot and then applied for a divorce certificate, it would become a divorce and I would not be able to get a house.
For the house, I chose to maintain a formal marriage with him. He helped me get a big house, and I helped him hide his sexual orientation..."