Chapter 504 Enlighten Gudazi And Turn Grief And Anger Into Motivation
Chapter 504 Enlighten Gudazi And Turn Grief And Anger Into Motivation
Gu Dazi said a lot of words intermittently, as if he wanted to release the distress accumulated during this period of time in one breath.
Marne patiently listened to her narration, and got a conclusion that was not unexpected.
Gu Dazi is suffering from PTSD, that is, 'creative stress disorder'.
To be more blunt, because of these incidents, some psychological shadows have been left behind.
She was worried all the time that when she commanded a battle next time, there would be another sacrifice, or even a greater sacrifice.
The reason for her situation is actually part of Marne's responsibility.
When Marne led the team before, everything went too smoothly, and there were almost no casualties.
Gu Dazi subconsciously takes this as an example, and because of the gap between himself and Marne, he has a strong lack of self-confidence.
This feeling of not being confident in "Zero Seven Zero" shakes her mentality all the time and makes her dread the future, which is the reason for her distress.
After hearing this, Marne was silent for a while, pondered for a while, and then said when she was ready to speak: "It's good for you to think so."
"This at least proves that your judgment is not wrong, and you are also very self-aware. This is a very important quality for a front-line commander."
Upon hearing this, Gudazi didn't know whether to laugh or cry.
Are you praising me, or are you hurting me?
As if reading her inner thoughts, Marne smiled and said, "I'm complimenting you."
"In front-line operations, the most taboo thing is that commanders misjudge the status quo and act blindly.
"And your self-knowledge is undoubtedly very valuable, allowing you to make decisions that best suit the situation at the time."
"These decisions can't be said to be the most appropriate, but at least they can help you to make appropriate arrangements as much as possible. Even if something goes wrong later, it's not your fault."
"Just like this time, according to the situation at the time, your decision-making was not wrong. Risks inevitably existed, but King Lanling was willing to bear this risk on his own initiative."
"Even if King Lanling didn't stand up at that time, other people would have to take the risk in the end."
Gudazi silently listened to Marne's enlightenment, and couldn't help being silent.
Looking back, she realized that what Marne said made a lot of sense.
At that time, there was only such a proper method, and the risk was unavoidable. Even if King Lanling did not do it, someone else would be selected to do the most dangerous task later.
A......
Gu Dazi clenched his fists and said with self-reproach: "If I wasn't so powerless, there would be no need for anyone to take this risk, if I could think of other ways
This is where Gudazi is really distressed. She doesn't want to see the sacrifice appear, but she has no way to avoid it.
She attributed it all to herself, her own problem.
Marne rubbed her head amusedly, "According to what you said, the fault should be on me, after all, you are not me."
"I had the ability to stop the sacrifice, but I walked away and couldn't stop it.
"If I hadn't gone away, there would be no such things behind, but there are so many ifs in reality. y"
But Gu Dazi shook his head, "It's none of your business, the situation at that time, boss, you had to leave, it was the enemy's distraction.
"You also said that it was all because of the enemy's calculations, so why are you still blaming yourself here?"
"You see, I am also partly responsible for what went wrong this time, but do you think I blame myself?"
Marne poured himself a sip of tea, and poured a cup for Gu Dazi before slowly saying: "There are no ifs now, instead of thinking so much here, it's better to do more practical things.
"Since what we are doing, the degree of danger is no worse than the risk taken by King Lanling at that time. To be honest, tomorrow and the accident will come first, and no one can say for sure.
"Maybe the enemy will come to attack Ledi tomorrow?"
"This potential risk has always existed, but hasn't Chaldea's alert situation been lifted?"
"I don't have so much time to think too much for you, Lixiang, we can only do our best to do what we can do."
"Whether you blame yourself or have other grievances, these are not important at present, and I don't want you to think about them now.
"If you blame yourself, you have to put it aside first. When the final battle comes, you may be able to hit the enemy a few more times."
"But it's too early to think about it now."
Blocking is worse than sparse.
Gudazi's negative emotions are inevitable...
It's not just her, there are not many people in Chaldea who don't have such negative emotions at all.
But don't they still try their best to do what they should do without saying anything?
Because they know that it is useless to talk now, they might as well endure it, try their best to stop the burning of human power, and finally slap Gatia's face fiercely on the opposite side, so that it is refreshing to vent.
It's just that Gu Dazi is still young and doesn't have such a strong view of the big picture. He is easily distracted by the things in front of him, so he gets entangled in these small things.
That's why I need someone else to guide me in this way.
And what Marne is doing now is to channel Gudazi's negative emotions to this correct outlet.
Typical turning 'sadness (negative)' into motivation.
After hearing these words, Gu Dazi felt as if he had been enlightened, and felt that the whole world became much clearer in an instant.
Her negative emotions are still there, they have not been eliminated, they have only been temporarily excluded.
But even that was enough to make her less lost and less cowed.
She nodded seriously, and said with a serious expression: "I understand, I will work hard!"
Seeing that it was almost done, Marne nodded in satisfaction, but immediately said: "But you don't have to push yourself too hard.
"As I said just now, you are not me, so there is no need to demand yourself by my 4.4 standard, you can't do it."
"There is a saying: Those who learn from me will live, and those who resemble me will die. Blindly imitating and forcing will only harm you."
"You just have to do what you can do well. It's almost impossible to become as strong as me."
Gu Dazi's confidence that had just been boosted was instantly hit hard.
She looked at Marne speechlessly and said, "I just got motivated, is it really okay for you to hit me like this now?"
Marne shrugged: "I'm just telling the truth, and it's for your own good."
"You're working hard enough now, but if you keep going like this, you'll drag your body down."
"Tell me yourself, have you had a good rest for a few days?"
....To be continued.....
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